the man you're becoming

becoming a man is not a single moment. it's not a birthday, a job title, or a bench press number. it's a slow, often confusing process of figuring out who you are and who God made you to be, and those are not always the same thing the world is selling you. the man you're becoming is an honest conversation about masculinity, identity, and purpose. it pushes past the shallow scripts of toughness and performance to ask deeper questions: what does it mean to be strong and gentle? how do you lead without controlling? what does faithfulness look like when nobody's watching? each chapter tackles a real area of growth, from emotional health to sexual integrity to finding your calling, with scripture, straight talk, and the kind of grace that makes transformation possible.